Toolkit

Somatic self-love is an alchemical process of bringing our essence down and into our bodies.

Welcome to the Somatic Self-Love Toolkit!

So glad you are here…

As someone who has personally experienced childhood sexual abuse and the resulting CPTSD, I know firsthand how overwhelming and confusing the journey of trauma recovery can be.

The intense physical and emotional sensations that often accompany trauma alchemy and recovery can be difficult to come to terms with, and for years, I found myself struggling with emotional flashbacks and feeling like I was constantly reliving the trauma over and over again.

In my pursuit of healing, I sought out teachers, modalities, workshops, and retreats, trying everything from talk-therapy, somatic therapy, EMDR, and many other modalities.

In 2011, I found breathwork and finally started the deep process of loving myself at a body level.

Through breathwork and other tools that would eventually find their way into somatic self-love, I began to experience post-traumatic growth. It was a slow and often painful process, and at first, feeling love alive in my body was terrifying. After all, I had grown so accustomed to dissociating from my body that actually feeling its sensations was overwhelming.

Recovery is The First Step in the Journey to Thriving

But as I continued to practice somatic self-love, I started to feel a deeper connection to my body and a greater presence in my everyday life. Now, after three decades of devotion to my own trauma recovery, I’m excited to share what I’ve discovered, learned, and embodied through the Somatic Self-Love Toolkit – a way of connecting with our bodies and gently alchemizing past pain and trauma into love.

This toolkit is designed to help others who are struggling with the intense physical and emotional sensations that come with trauma. It includes tools and resources for practicing somatic self-love, such as ceremonies, rituals, journal prompts, body-awareness exercises and of course, breathwork.

Creating this toolkit was a deeply personal journey for me. It allowed me to explore my own experiences with trauma and somatic self-love, and to share what I’ve learned with others who may be struggling as well. I hope that this toolkit will be a helpful resource for anyone who is looking to connect with their body in a positive and compassionate way.

This vision is bold: to end gender-based violence against women and girls in two generations. We know that achieving this goal will require a collective effort, and we are committed to doing our part. Through our programs, workshops, and events, we are empowering women and girls to love themselves, embrace their bodies, and speak their truth.

Join us in our mission to create a world free from gender-based violence. Use the toolkit and provide feedback! Together, we can create a future where every woman and girl feels safe, valued, and empowered.

Somatic Self-Love Toolkit

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Three Keys to Cultivate Somatic Self-Love and Boost Your Mental Health

Somatic self-love is a ‘bottom-up approach’ to an essential aspect of mental health and well-being. …

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Why Somatic Self-Love? How To Release Tension, Cultivate Awareness And Generate More Self-Love

What is Somatic Self-love? Self-love is an essential component of mental health and well-being. It …

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The Transformative Power of Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is a powerful practice that can help us to cultivate a deeper sense of …

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Finding the Felt-Sense: Body Scan

Relaxation is the key to a healthy and happy life. But with our busy schedules and never-ending to-do lists, it can be hard to unwind. That’s where body scanning comes in. This technique helps you tune into your body and release pent-up tension. Here’s how to give it a try:

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Softening Into Our Bodies

It is important to soften into our bodies because it allows us to connect with our inner selves and tune into our physical and emotional needs.

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The Wild, Free Self and the Breathwork Path to Nature Connection

Have you ever felt a connection to the natural world that is so deep and …

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Trusting Our Intuition: The Power of Breathwork with the Spirit of the Wolf

Our intuition is a powerful tool that lives beneath rational thought. Intuition is not a …

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Feeling Into Your Intuition

Regularly exercising and trusting your intuition can strengthen it like a muscle. This can help you focus on your physical experiences in the present moment and facilitate a better connection between your heart and intuition.

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Breaking the Mold: Let’s Celebrate Self-Love and Dismantle the Unrealistic Standards of Female Beauty

Beauty standards for women have been around for centuries, and they’re often unrealistic, unattainable, and …

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The Miracle of Nature: Why Being Outdoors Can Help You Feel More Relaxed and Centered

Nature’s healing power is often overlooked in our busy, technology-filled lives. The natural world offers …

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Unlock the Healing Benefits of Breathwork for Trauma Recovery: Start Your Journey Today

Trauma can profoundly impact a person’s mental and physical well-being. Whether it’s a single traumatic …

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How Somatic Self-Love Can Help You Find Your Voice and Speak Your Truth

Let’s discuss how somatic self-love can help build confidence, overcome the fear of being seen …

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Unlocking the Power of Sensory Rest: How to Recharge Your Mind and Body

Sensory rest, also known as a sensory reset, is a technique used to help people …

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20 Somatic Self-Love Practices to Promote Emotional Resilience & Release Trauma

Develop emotional resilience and presence with these 20 somatic self-love exercises. Transform stress, tension, and trauma into nourishing moments of connection with your body.

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CPTSD – How We Repeat What Is Unresolved and How to Break the Cycle

If you find yourself stuck in a pattern of painful sensations, emotions, feelings, situations, or …

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Practicing Joy

Starting your day with a joyful practice for feeling somatic self-love offers numerous benefits for …

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Moving Beyond Minimization – How Somatic Self-Love Builds Capacity 

Those of us with unresolved trauma often become experts at developing creative coping mechanisms. That’s …

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Fawning: Sometimes We Need to Practice ‘Caring Less’

Often, people with unresolved trauma go into a fawn response as a coping mechanism. Why …

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Keep Choosing You, Over and Over Again

Choosing yourself over and over again, especially in the context of healing from trauma, is …

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Celebrate Women!

Today, we celebrate the women who are growing and glowing. These women are on a …

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Why is it Important to Empower Women with Somatic Self-Love?

The problem of societal beauty standards for women is a pervasive issue that negatively impacts …

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How Somatic Self-Love & Living a Soft Life Bring Healing and Wellbeing

Discover how somatic self-love and living a soft life can bring healing and well being …

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What do you want to know about somatic self-love?

I’m training Sophia the Somatic Self-Love Bot to answer all your burning questions about about …

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The Art of Somatic Self-Love: Begin with Small Steps to Experience a Life Overflowing with Love

Somatic self-love is a holistic approach, process, and life-long journey. We practice self-care and self-compassion, …

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Alchemizing Trauma: Turning Adversity into Personal Power

Trauma is an unfortunate reality for many women, and it often leaves lasting adverse effects …

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Recovering from CPTSD and Feeling Safe Enough to Let Love In

Recovering from Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) can be a long and complex process, and …

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Why “Just” Loving Our Bodies is Not Always the Answer

“For lots of people struggling with eating disorders, loving their bodies isn’t the answer. It …

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The Art of Somatic Self-Love: Fueling Your Relationship with Your Body

Somatic Self-Love is a profound act of courage, especially for women today who face a …

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Restorative Yoga for Somatic Self-Love

Restorative yoga is a style of yoga that focuses on relaxation and rejuvenation. It is …

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Self-massage with a Massage ball for Somatic Self-love

A massage ball is a small, firm ball used for self-massage and trigger point therapy. …

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Progressive Muscle Relaxation for Somatic Self-Love

Progressive muscle relaxation (PMR) is a relaxation technique that involves systematically tensing and relaxing different …

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Body Scan for Somatic Self-Love

Body scan meditation is a practice that involves bringing attention to different parts of the …

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Spending Time in Nature to Build Somatic Self-Love

Nature bathing, also known as forest bathing or shinrin-yoku, is a practice that involves spending …

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Tracking Sensations Practice for Polyvagal Engagement

We want to engage our polyvagal system for nervous system regulation because it plays a …

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Awareness of Sensations Walk for More Somatic Self-Love

The Awareness of Sensations Walk can promote somatic self-love by increasing awareness and promoting a …

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Down and In: The Grounding Practice for Somatic Self-Love

The Grounding In Somatic Self-Love practice is a mindfulness-based practice that focuses on building a …

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Aromatherapy: Delight Your Sense of Smell for More Somatic Self-Love

Aromatherapy can be a powerful tool for promoting somatic self-love by using the therapeutic properties …

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Gentle Moves For Feeling Self-Love Alive in Our Bodies

Gentle movement can promote sensations of self-love in our body by increasing our awareness of …

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Restorative Poses to Promote Relaxation and Rest

Restorative postures are a type of yoga practice that involve gentle, supported poses that promote …

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Somatic Self-Love Pendulation Exercise Tuning into the Natural Rhythms of Life

The Pendulation Exercise can foster more somatic self-love by helping you tune into your body’s …

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A Warm Water Ritual for More Somatic Self-Love

A warm water ritual can be a powerful way to promote somatic self-love by relaxing …

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Somatic Self-Love Journaling

Somatic Self-Love Journaling differs from regular journaling in that it specifically focuses on exploring the …

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Somatic Self-Love Journaling for an Expanded Sense of Joy and Self-Love

Somatic Self-Love Journaling can be a powerful tool for expanding your sense of joy and …

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Somatic Self-Love Presence-based Eating

Establishing a practice for Somatic Self-Love Presence-based Eating can be a powerful way to cultivate …

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A Somatic Self-Love Ritual for Creative Expression

A Somatic Self-Love Ritual for Creative Expression can be a powerful way to deepen your …

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How Somatic Resourcing Can Help Create More Somatic Self-Love

Exploring somatic resourcing to soothe your inner critic, get out of perfectionism and foster heartfelt …

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5-Senses Somatic Self-Love Savoring Ritual – A Powerful Practice for Women

In this post, we explore the importance of women’s self-care rituals, and offer a powerful …

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Breaking The Barriers to Somatic Self-Love by Releasing Cultural Programming

Cultural programming: a powerful yet invisible force that shapes our thoughts, beliefs, and actions, often …

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Somatic Shape: The Shape of Giving and Receiving Self-Love

Somatic self-love delves into the intricate world of “shapes” – those deeply-ingrained patterns, sometimes subtle, …

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The Trauma-Body Connection and How Breathwork Can Help…

When we experience trauma, our bodies store the unresolved energy, often within our muscles and …

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Somatic Self-Love for Integration and Agency: Embodied Expression

Childhood abuse impacts our nervous system and sense of self. When we experience abuse as …

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Safe and Grounded: Somatic Self-Love Practice for Toxic Shame

Toxic shame can be a particularly insidious form of trauma, as it often develops slowly …

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Embrace Your Inherent Worth with a Somatic Self-Love Ritual

The burden of worthlessness is a deep sense of shame and unworthiness that can become …

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Discover the Power of Somatic Self-Love with Your Personalized Altar, Designed to Awaken Your Body’s Inner Wisdom and Foster Deep Healing and Self-Discovery

Creating a somatic self-love altar may seem simple, but it can profoundly affect your mental …

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The Importance Sacred Space to Enhance Somatic Self-Love Practice

Learn how creating sacred space can help you better connect with your body and cultivate …

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CPTSD, Emotional Flashbacks and How Somatic Self-Love Can Help

Discover how somatic self-love can help provide relief from emotional flashbacks associated with CPTSD, and …

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Releasing Resentment for More Joy: Somatic Self-Love & CPTSD Recovery

Abuse and any mistreatment can lead to intense resentment, but it doesn’t have to be …

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Transform Your Hiking Experience and Boost Self-Love with this Sacred Trash-Picking Practice

As someone who loves spending time in nature, I feel unhappy with the amount of …

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Embracing Spring: The Perfect Season for Cultivating Somatic Self-Love With Breathwork

Spring is often associated with renewal, growth, and a fresh start, making it an ideal …

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Embodying Vulnerability – A Somatic Self-Love Practice

Somatic self-love is a powerful and transformative practice that invites us to courageously embrace our …

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Embodying Love: Unleash Your Inner Power with the Somatic Self-Love Toolkit for a Deeper Connection and Wholehearted Living

Somatic self-love is the experience of self-love alive within your body as you intentionally cultivate …

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Awakening Inner Magic: A Somatic Self-Love Journey to Uncover Your True Potential and Universal Connection

I am a born believer. Not in the way some religions have co-opted the word… …

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Self-Love Isn’t Selfish: How Somatic Self-Love Connects Us to Others and the Land

“Self-love isn’t selfish.” We’ve all heard this phrase, but what does it truly mean, and how …

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Somatic Practice: Connecting Individual Worth to the Love of the Universe

I am part of something bigger and my presence matters. Somatic Self-Love As we journey …

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Discover the Power of Self-Compassion: A Transformative Somatic Practice for Loving Yourself from the Inside Out

I’ll never forget being in triangle pose – sweating and fighting and working hard to …

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Recovery from C-PTSD with Somatic Self-Love: Empowerment, Safety, and Collective Healing

Introduction Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disease (C-PTSD) is a condition that results from prolonged exposure to …

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Embracing Your Body’s Beauty and Strength: A Journey in Somatic Self-Love

Our society often perpetuates a narrow and unrealistic definition of beauty, leading many to feel …

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Somatic Self-Love: Healing Emotional Neglect and Rediscovering the Self

“Emotional neglect, alone, causes children to abandon themselves and to give up on the formation …

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Somatic Self-Love Ritual: Creating a Body That Feels Like Home for Those with C-PTSD

Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disease (C-PTSD) can make our bodies feel like unfamiliar, even hostile, territories. …

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Somatic Self-Love and its Role in Empowering Women and Girls Against Gender-Based Violence

Gender-based violence (GBV) is a pervasive and devastating issue that affects millions of women and …

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The Importance of Self-Confidence and Self-Worth in Standing Up Against Gender-Based Violence

Gender-based violence (GBV) is a deeply ingrained, global issue that affects millions of women and …

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Hey Moms! Celebrating You with Somatic Self-Love 

Hey moms! As we celebrate you and all that you do on Mother’s Day, I’m here …

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Deep body inquiry: what does it feel like to ‘feel hungry for love’ in your body?

When exploring the feeling of being “hungry for love” in the body, it’s essential to …

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Unveiling the Flames Within: Healing Ancestral Trauma as a Feminine Force

Last weekend, I had the profound opportunity to assist a breathwork healer training. Little did …

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Body Memory

Body memory refers to the phenomenon where the body retains or “remembers” past experiences or …

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Somatic Psyche

The term “somatic psyche” refers to the integration of the body and the mind within …

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Social, Somatic, Transgenerational, Ancestral Trauma for Fem/mes in the Patrairchy

Social trauma, somatic trauma, and transgenerational trauma can have significant impacts on women living in …

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Collective Social Feminine Body

The concept of the “collective social feminine body” refers to the shared experiences, perceptions, and …

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Sites of Shaping

The term “sites of shaping” refers to the various aspects of an individual’s experience that …

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Patriarchal Structures

Patriarchal structures refer to systems of social organization and cultural practices that privilege men and …

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Somatic Shadow and Shadow Work Ritual

A somatic shadow refers to the aspects of ourselves that we have repressed or disowned …

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Worthy and Beautiful Just As We Are

Somatic self-love plays a profound role in helping women embody the truth that their worth …

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Breathwork as a Path to Liberation: Dissolving Somatic Spells and Reclaiming Well-Being

A “somatic spell” can be defined as an embodied pattern of trauma- and stress-related responses …

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What is Somatic Self-Love?

Somatic self-love is the practice of cultivating love, acceptance, and compassion for ourselves through bodily …

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Embracing the Somatic Narrative: A Journey to Self-Love

Understanding the Language of the Body The somatic narrative, or the story told by the …

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7 Easy Practices to Love Yourself More!

So many of us can feel overwhelmed or like we ‘don’t know what we are …

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The Healing Power of Breathwork for Somatic Self-Love

Breathing: it’s something we do every day without thinking. But what if we told you …

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Rituals for Safety and Self-Love: A Key to Embodying Self-Compassion

Imagine a day where every action is a gentle reaffirmation of your self-worth, an act …

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Transmuting Trapped Energy (Trauma) With SomaticSelf-Love

As someone who has personally experienced childhood sexual abuse and the resulting CPTSD, I know …

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Cultivating a Relationship with Your Own Heart

Venus Retrograde is a period when Venus appears to be moving backward in its orbit, …

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New Moon in Cancer: A Time for Somatic Self-Love

The New Moon is a time of beginnings, of setting intentions, and embracing the possibility …

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Why Is It So Hard to Love Myself?

As I continue to write and talk about Somatic Self-Love, many people have asked the …

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Embodying Self-Love: Living a Life of Creative Fulfillment

Our voyage to embodying self-love and unlocking our creative potential begins with a simple, yet profound …

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Feeling Our Grief: An Important Step in Somatic Self-Love

“In the process of feeling our grief, we are, in fact, performing a radical act …

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Grieving with Grace: Honoring Our Emotions to Love Ourselves Fully and Feel Love Alive in the Body

Grief is a profound and deeply personal journey that can invite us into a space …

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Somatic Self-Love, Breathwork and Grief

In confronting loss or sudden change, we can experience an immense array of emotions – …

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The Grief of Unmet Needs: Somatic Self-Love To Soothe the Parts of Us Trapped in the Past

As the creator of the somatic self-love approach, I’ve drawn heavily from established theories such …

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Somatic Self-Love Under the Aquarius Full Moon

The celestial dance deeply influences our lives, subtly weaving its rhythm into our moods, behaviors, …

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Death Gives Us Permission to Feel Grief – Past and Present

In its ebb and flow, life unfurls a myriad of emotions – joy, sorrow, love, …

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Somatic Self-Love: A Practice For Deepening Connection With Ourselves

When I mention the term “somatic self-love,” I often see puzzled expressions. It’s a term …

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The Ripple Effect of Somatic Self-Love: A Path to Eradicating Sexual Abuse Energy

In the quest to eradicate sexual abuse energy from our planet, a question often arises: …

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What is SAE?

SAE stands for Sexual Abuse Energy, Sexual abuse energy is a deeply impactful and pervasive …

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Embracing Embodied Life: The Interplay of Somatics and Self-Love

In the heart of our bustling lives, nestled within the rush and roar, is the …

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The Radical Power of Somatic Self-Love: Embracing Bodily Pleasure as a Woman

We live in a world that often imposes stringent beauty standards and societal norms and …

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Embracing Somatic Sovereignty and Somatic Self-Love Through Pleasure

Somatic Sovereignty: Reclaiming Your Body Somatic sovereignty is about embracing your body as it is …

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Somatic Self-Love: A Radical Reclamation of Body and Self

When a woman revels in the pleasure of her own skin, she stakes a claim …

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The Body Loop: Interplay of Memory, Emotion, and Somatic Transformation

“In every culture and in every medical tradition before ours, healing was accomplished by moving …

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Breaking the Shadow Contract of Capitalism: Women, Labor, and the Power of Somatic Self-Love

Underneath the veneer of prosperity and progress, there are shadow sides of capitalism: a system …

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Breathwork Saved My Life

Embracing vulnerability, life feels much like a roller coaster, filled with moments of daring greatly …

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Celebrating Rocktober with Somatic Self-Love: A Month of Growth and Empowerment

Happy Rocktober to all of you! October is not just about the fall leaves or …

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The Power of Exchange: A Journey into Somatic Self-Love

Recently, during a breathwork session, I felt a concept land in my body… the idea …

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The Ripple Effect of Embodied Self-Love in Ending Gender-Based Violence

When women feel self-love alive in their bodies – meaning they can taste, touch, hear, …

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Trapped Trauma from Childhood Abuse and Advancements in Healing

When someone experiences both emotional and physical trauma simultaneously, particularly in a situation where they …

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Building a New World Together Through Embodied Love

As I celebrate the birthing of the School of Somatic Self-Love, I feel so connected …

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Cultivating a Felt Sense of Relative Safety in Trauma Recovery

The felt sense of relative safety is a cornerstone in trauma recovery, acting as a …

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Reclaiming Self-Love: A Somatic Approach to Shedding Shame and Embracing Resilience

We often carry the weight of our experiences in the deepest fibers of our being, …

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Discovering Calm: The Journey to Somatic Self-Love After Trauma

In the aftermath of trauma, the concept of calm can feel like a foreign language—difficult …

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Transforming Toxic Shame: Embrace Somatic Self-Love and Heal with Mother Earth

In the journey of self-discovery and trauma recovery, understanding the spectrum of shame is incredibly …

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Embracing Resistance as a Resource: A Somatic Self-Love Approach to Trauma Recovery

As we journey through the landscape of trauma recovery, we may encounter an unexpected companion …

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Embracing Grief and Trauma Through Somatic Self-Love

“Every one of us must do this. We must learn how to work with the …

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Transformative Grief and Rage Ritual: A Personal Journey

Navigating through the landscape of grief and trauma can be an intensely private journey, yet …

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The Taurus New Moon: A Gateway to Somatic Self-Love

Somatic Self-Love is a holistic and embodied approach to trauma recovery that honors the interconnectedness …

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Revolutionizing Self-Love: Discover the Non-Hierarchical Path to Body Wisdom

Society has long celebrated rational thinking as the pinnacle of intellectual achievement, often at the …

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Understanding Self-Love as a Spectrum, Not a Destination

Have you ever noticed how eager we are to categorize and measure ourselves? Success is …

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Unstuck and Unwinding: How Pandiculation and Somatic Therapy Unlock Joy

We often talk about releasing emotions from the past, but what about the physical echoes …

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