Category: Self-Love

Somatic self-love is an alchemical process of bringing our essence down and into our bodies.

The Body Loop: Interplay of Memory, Emotion, and Somatic Transformation

“In every culture and in every medical tradition before ours, healing was accomplished by moving energy.” – Alberto Villoldo. Modern therapy approaches often sidelines the body’s role in our health and wellbeing. Emphasizing mind over matter, relegating the body’s role in our inner ecology as secondary, even inconsequential. For the last 25 years, emerging evidence…
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Somatic Self-Love: A Radical Reclamation of Body and Self

When a woman revels in the pleasure of her own skin, she stakes a claim on her own expression, separate from the gaze of others. This fundamental shift in her existence is nothing less than a bold proclamation of somatic self-love. The Concept of Somatic Self-Love Somatic self-love is a term coined by Daniella Matutes,…
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Embracing Somatic Sovereignty and Somatic Self-Love Through Pleasure

Somatic Sovereignty: Reclaiming Your Body Somatic sovereignty is about embracing your body as it is right now and making decisions based on personal intuition and knowledge, without the influence of external pressures, societal norms, or expectations[^1^]. This practice goes beyond the realm of physical health and wellness; it involves understanding, respecting, and honoring our body’s…
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Embracing Embodied Life: The Interplay of Somatics and Self-Love

In the heart of our bustling lives, nestled within the rush and roar, is the silent whisper of our bodies—a whisper that holds the wisdom of ages and the secrets of our innermost being. The practice of somatics shines a light on this voice, guiding us towards a deeper, more embodied way of living. But…
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What is SAE?

SAE stands for Sexual Abuse Energy, Sexual abuse energy is a deeply impactful and pervasive phenomenon that extends beyond acts of physical abuse to include non-physical interactions that can be equally damaging. Its insidious nature makes it difficult to identify and confront, yet understanding its existence is a critical part of the journey towards eradication.…
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Somatic Self-Love: A Practice For Deepening Connection With Ourselves

When I mention the term “somatic self-love,” I often see puzzled expressions. It’s a term not commonly encountered, yet it represents a concept so intrinsic to our well-being. And once people grasp what it means, the next question is invariably, “How do I cultivate it?” Why is it so difficult for us to love ourselves?…
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Death Gives Us Permission to Feel Grief – Past and Present

In its ebb and flow, life unfurls a myriad of emotions – joy, sorrow, love, grief, and everything in between. These emotions are etched deep within our bodies and stored in our cellular memory.  It’s not just our experiences that reside within us but also the emotional legacies of our lineages. One of the things…
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Somatic Self-Love Under the Aquarius Full Moon

The celestial dance deeply influences our lives, subtly weaving its rhythm into our moods, behaviors, and spiritual growth. The cosmos is not just a spectacle to admire from afar but a living, breathing entity that we are an integral part of.  Astrological events, from the ebbs and flows of the moon to the grand ballet…
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The Grief of Unmet Needs: Somatic Self-Love To Soothe the Parts of Us Trapped in the Past

As the creator of the somatic self-love approach, I’ve drawn heavily from established theories such as Antonio Damasio’s Somatic Marker Hypothesis and the seminal work of Dr. Bessel van der Kolk. Somatic Marker theory hypothesizes that our emotional experiences leave physiological imprints or ‘markers’ on the body, which influence our future decision-making and emotional responses.…
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Grieving with Grace: Honoring Our Emotions to Love Ourselves Fully and Feel Love Alive in the Body

Grief is a profound and deeply personal journey that can invite us into a space of deep self-understanding and compassion. In this journey, we can learn how to grieve gracefully, respecting our feelings so that we can fully love ourselves and experience the life of love in our bodies. Grief can feel overwhelming, but it’s…
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